Pleasure Anarchy is a term I use to communicate my commitment to challenging any system or culture that creates or upholds moralistic views about bodies, the value they possess, and the pleasure they’re allowed to feel. Beliefs that prioritize certain bodies and experiences over others, based on sexuality, body size, health & ability, race, gender, or parental status are critiqued.

Katy DeJong, CHSE

Welcome! I’m Katy, a certified holistic sexuality educator dedicated to helping people navigate the complexities of intimacy, desire and sexual communication during infertility. With a background in both sex education and philosophy, I bring a unique perspective to my work. Philosophy trained me to see patterns, make connections, and ask the right questions-helping people to uncover the deeper influences that shape our experiences, beliefs, and relationships. I believe that pleasure is fundamental to well-being and that everyone, regardless of body size, sexuality, gender, race, ability, or health status is deserving of feeling good. I am here to help you cultivate a connection with yourself and in your relationships, on your own terms. Together we can explore new perspectives, challenge unhelpful narratives, and create a fulfilling path forward

  • After three years of infertility and endless cycles ending in heartbreak, I started to question my purpose and path forward. READ MORE

  • The lens through which I experience the world, and therefore approach my work as a sexuality educator has been informed by a variety of factors. READ MORE

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